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Volume 3: A blow of destiny, the king appears Chapter 36: The love of flowers is blown away by the wind, living in desolation and seclusion

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    Autism has three major symptoms:

    Social communication impairment.  Some children with autism avoid eye contact with others and lack facial expressions from infancy.  Easily separated from parents, sometimes with strangers as well as with their parents.

    They rarely take the initiative to contact family and friends, and are often passive and lack interest in people and things.  Some follow-up studies report that they still lack social skills after adolescence and are unable to form romantic relationships or get married.

    Speech development disorder.  Language impairment is very common and severe in children with autism.  Some of them are silent or rarely speak; some cannot talk, cannot bring up topics, often talk to themselves, and do not care about the reactions of those around them.

    Some repeatedly imitate and repeat other people's words, even sentences that appeared on the radio or TV a few days ago; some speech lacks pronunciation and intonation, and has no emotional expression; some even repeatedly scream, hum or say other people's words  Words that I simply don¡¯t understand.

    Narrow interests and rigid lifestyle.  Autistic patients have fixed environmental requirements, and changing situations often make them uneasy.  They are accustomed to stereotyped and repetitive movements, such as running, spinning, and sometimes harmful head banging.

    Their interests are also very peculiar. They are obsessed with repeatedly observing something that is not interesting to ordinary children, such as a rotating electric fan; and they have unique contact patterns, such as repeatedly touching the surface of a smooth object.

    In addition, children may have abnormal sensory perception, either being too slow or too sensitive.  In addition, their intelligence is often flawed, but they may have amazing talents in certain aspects, such as super memory and calculation ability for numbers.

    In the decades since autism was discovered, humans have been unable to find the cause of the disease, nor can they find effective treatments.

    Experts point out that after the diagnosis of autism.  In addition to targeted and effective intervention and rehabilitation training, what is more important is social acceptance, schooling, employment opportunities and legal protection.

    "But the way out that society provides them is quite narrow. From kindergarten to school and employment, autistic children are rejected in various ways and for various reasons.

    Therefore, we should recognize autism earlier and show more love and tolerance to autistic patients.

    There are roughly two ways to relieve loneliness: one is self-discipline; the other is counseling and drug treatment by a psychologist.  Once you find that you have a tendency to be lonely, you should tell yourself clearly that if you imprison yourself in a cage of solitude, you will only get loneliness instead of happiness.

    We should bravely and firmly open the doors and windows of the soul.  Get out of your own little world and actively participate in social activities.

    Relevant experts engaged in psychological research pointed out that people can adopt three modes to avoid loneliness.

    First, moderately stressful work can avoid a sense of psychological loss, and a fulfilling life has a subtle effect on improving people's depression.

    The second is to cultivate good interests and hobbies as much as possible or participate in some public welfare activities to trigger new pursuits; the third is to appropriately change the environment to avoid inertia.  Entering a new environment and accepting challenging work can stimulate people's potential and vitality, change their mood as the environment changes, and always maintain a healthy and upward mentality.

    In the academic field, Mi Shan is a famous new-school emotional writer on the Internet with the theme of loneliness.

    Mi Shan¡¯s chapter takes silence, wandering, and loneliness as themes, describing the thoughts and emotional inner world of the cleft lip group born in the 1980s.

    In Mi Shan¡¯s eyes, loneliness always seems to have a sense of mystery, a deep reflection in the personal world.  The words express a kind of emotional loneliness. Looking at Mi Shan's chapter, feeling lonely is also a kind of beauty.  Loneliness, silence, wandering.  It has always been an eternal topic for mankind.

    Singer: Binyang Band, Album: Binyang Different Sound©¤"That day you decided to go south, and I said I could only go north.

    You cross the gurgling river and cross the mountain, and everything for so many years is gone with the wind.

    ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? Started to think of the past in my memory.  Should I throw away the sin in my heart and wipe away those tears, wipe away all the pain of those tears.  I can't bear to cry helplessly for no reason.

    I miss you in my heart. Nothing can replace you. Why did you leave me and make me lonely and lonely? I miss you so much and love you so much. I really like you. Why did you abandon me and make me lonely and lonely.

    When you feel that love is not like this, there is no reason for love and hate.  If you ask me to bear the false love and hate, when you feel that love is not like this, there is no reason for love and hate. If you ask me to bear the false love and hate, it is impossible.  "

    Singer: Zhang Chu, song©¤Lonely people are shameful©¤

    "This is the season of love, and the smell of lovers is in the air."?Lonely people are shameful.

    This is the season of love, everyone should smile at each other and hug each other, that¡¯s it.

    I like flowers. There should be flowers in the city. Even if they are picked off, the flowers should still grow.

    This is the season of love, everyone should make friends with each other, lonely people are shameful.

    Life blooms like flowers, we cannot let ourselves wither, there is no choice, we must fall in love.

    The love of flowers is blown away by the wind, blown away by the wind, blown away by the wind. They don¡¯t look for it, don¡¯t rely on it, they are very proud.

    Lonely people, they want to be as beautiful as flowers.  A proud heart flutters in the wind and falls at people's feet. Shameful people, who oppose life and boredom, become withered in the eyes of people for the sake of beauty.  "

    Guo Jingming¡¯s poem, loneliness, ¡°It has been raining heavily for two days and two nights, and it is still raining, with no intention of stopping. Through the window, we seem to be living in a water curtain cave, which reminds me of One Hundred Years of Solitude.

    It had been raining heavily for several years, the room was humid, and moss had grown on the body.  A school of fish swam up to the roof. On such a rainy day, we held umbrellas and walked on the street, stepping on the stagnant water. We didn¡¯t know where we were going?  "

    Chen Qizhen sings acapella: "Loneliness is the rain on a winter night, loneliness is the sigh in the morning, loneliness is the name of a song. Let me call you gently, let me close my eyes quietly, and I realize that tomorrow is as far away as the future.

    She hurriedly disappeared into the crowd, and he searched aimlessly. Loneliness was an ordinary and unfamiliar figure.  Let me follow you secretly, let me greet you cordially, turn around and find that this familiar expression is my long-lost self.  "

    Tong Xiao wrote a poem: "I beg you, don't take away my loneliness. I know that loneliness is my endowment when I die. I want to occupy it perfectly and cannot bear its departure.

    Loneliness has been with me for twenty years, constantly nourishing me and allowing me to thrive. I enjoy this loneliness until the day I grow old, and slowly die in the embrace of kindness.  "

    Looking for a place where you can live a secluded life.

    Antony, Storry, storr Solitude solitude 1 loneliness; loneliness; seclusion 2 remote place); desolate place)

    People often ignore their inner feelings and needs. Only loneliness can allow us to truly get in touch with the inner world.

    When you see loneliness, what do you think of?

    The answers given by most people are negative and negative.

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    British psychologist John Bowlby also said: Intimate attachment relationships with others are the axis on which life revolves.  It is generally believed in society that a person who likes to be alone and does not like to be in contact with others is 80% likely to have some kind of mental defect; an extremely introverted person is also more abnormal than an extremely extroverted person.

    Therefore, if the people around us usually like to stay at home, we usually encourage them to go out and participate in more social activities; even psychotherapists, without exception, do not include the ability to be alone as a reference for judging emotional maturity.

    Anthony and Steuer put forward a new point of view on this.  He believes that perhaps we should not idealize relationships and that relationships should not be the only way to achieve happiness.

    In fact, loneliness, that is, being alone, can also bring us success and happiness in life.  The book analyzes loneliness from a professional perspective, using celebrities from ancient and modern times - writers, philosophers, musicians, and even religious saints - as examples to illustrate that loneliness is not as negative and harmful as traditional concepts advocate. It can be used in many situations.  On the contrary, it is positive and beneficial to people.
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