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Volume 1 Text ¡¾092¡¿Uncle Mobilization

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    "Take you to a place." When night fell, Lin Shao made his own decision.  As for Xiao Mu and Mo Zi, they are no longer the two little brats who followed us behind us and smoked cigarettes. Now they think that Mr. Lin and I are too old-fashioned and have nothing in common. We are in a hurry after eating.  I went to hook up with a girl.  "Where to go?" I asked.  Mr. Lin answered the question: "Have you ever watched "Life Goes Forward"?" "How many episodes have you watched?" I can probably understand why Mr. Lin talked about this topic with me. This guy lived a relatively Western life when he was a child, and became a star of Friends.  Fans, and Mr. Lin has supported Matthew Perry unswervingly for many years.  Mr. Lin rarely discussed Matthew Perry's performance in the new drama. He said: "If you join that kind of psychological group, will the situation be much better?" "Life Goes Forward" is about the community center.  The story between the members of the 10-person psychological mutual aid treatment group. From a secular perspective, the members of the mutual aid group are all weirdos.  In fact, this subject is not new. There have been plots about mutual aid groups in movies and TV series a long time ago, and there are many types of mutual aid groups, such as mutual aid groups for drug addicts, mutual aid groups for sex addicts, etc.  I asked Mr. Lin: "Is there such an organization in our country?" Mr. Lin: "Why not? I just joined one." I was surprised: "Is it true?" Mr. Lin: "I lied to you.  Well, don¡¯t believe it, I found it on WeChat and later joined that group. The place is called ¡°Uncle General Mobilization¡±. It¡¯s actually a group of divorced men who talk to each other and share their mental stress.  , we have activities every Friday, there are no restrictions on new members, I will take you to see it." I said weakly: "How many times have you been there, has it been effective?" Mr. Lin: "I am a veteran.  Yes, the effect is very good, you really have to try it.¡± At seven o¡¯clock in the evening, we arrived at a special place.  This place is so special, just like in movies and TV shows, an empty hall with a few chairs surrounding it.  Before us, there were already five uncles sitting in a group.  Mr. Lin told me that there are more than a dozen members in this self-help group, but the number of people who come to the activities every week is different.  After all, this is not a mandatory event. Many members come to this place to relieve stress because they are mentally stressed or have been in a bad mood recently.  By 7:30, no one came back. Counting Mr. Lin and me, seven men started the story.  This group of people made me feel very friendly and easy to talk to. The oldest one among them started by caring about my feelings: "There are new people joining today. As per the old rules, let's open our hearts first and set an example for the new people. I also hope that  The experience we shared can help this new friend. "This elder brother was not vague at all. He really set an example when he said it. He shared his story on the spot: "My name is Lao Zhang, and I am forty-five years old.  I have been married three times, married three times, and divorced three times. My son is 20 years old, born to my first wife, and my daughter is 13 years old, born to my second wife" After this  After a general opening statement, Lao Zhang continued: "In 1990, I was 22 years old, and that year was my first marriage. My first marriage was arranged by my family, and I only met the woman twice.  My parents wanted me to marry her. At that time, I had been impacted by many new ideas, and I wanted to have free love. I refused to do anything about this marriage, so I fell out with my dad and ran away from home.  , not long after, my mother asked someone to tell me that my dad was hospitalized and he was angry with me. My dad had a heart disease and the doctor said that if he passed out because of me, he might never wake up again.  I was very scared, and I didn¡¯t know what to think, so I agreed to get married. ¡°I told you not to laugh at me. At that time, I read some martial arts novels in which couples who had no feelings had to have sex after being married for many years. I was tired of this kind of novels.  I didn¡¯t even touch my ex-wife in the first year of marriage Looking back now, my ex-wife is actually a very nice person, but I rejected this marriage in my heart, and I always rejected her in the first few years of marriage.  Like a dead person, with no energy at all. In 1995, my father died of illness, and in the same year, I couldn't wait to choose a divorce" At this point, Lao Zhang's voice became hoarse: "I don't know what this marriage means to me.  I didn't understand why I got married or why I left. There was only one thing I knew very well, that is, my son always hated me. He thought I had a woman outside and it was me who abandoned them.  He hasn¡¯t spoken to me since he was seven years old, and until now, he has never given me a good look" After a pause, Lao Zhang began to talk about his second marriage: "I don¡¯t have a woman outside.  After this marriage, I am a bit repelled by women.  In 1997, two years after my divorce, I officially dated a woman.  Strictly speaking, this was the first time I fell in love. I was 29 years old at the time, and it was the first time I experienced what it felt like to be in love.  I want to maintain a relationship with her, but I have not thought about getting married, and I have some doubts about marriage.  Unexpectedly, the plan could not keep up with the changes. In 1999, she said she was pregnant again.  She had already had an abortion for me in 1998, and she said that she might not be able to have children after another abortion.  That's when we got married to our daughter" "After getting married, she seemed to be a different person. Anyway, she was very different from before marriage.  I thought that a woman who was pregnant with a child would have a bad temper, so I kept tolerating her. Who knew that after giving birth, her temper would become even worse, which was simply unreasonable.  Later I discovered that this woman was quite scheming, and many things were planned by her.  Including her pregnancy, everything was arranged.  She told me it was a safe period, but in fact it was not safe at all.  That's all. Anyway, my daughter is my biological child and we are part of the same family. I think I still plan to forgive him.  Then something happened that I couldn't bear anymore. When I was in love with her, she was very filial to my mother. After we got married, I felt like that was no longer the case.  In 2004, my mother got seriously ill. I took my mother to live with me for a few months. She was always acting strangely. The implication was that I should send my mother to my brother's house, which made me very unhappy.  Comfortable.  After this incident, we had an irreparable rift. In 2006, I divorced her" Listening to Lao Zhang's story, the image of this uncle became fuller in my heart. Who would have thought that this chubby man looked like  What is the story behind this middle-aged uncle who is either a rich man or a cook?  , it cannot be considered a marriage at all.  In 2008, when I turned 40, I planned to travel to celebrate my birthday and took a seven-day trip to Las Vegas.  Sure enough, it was a man with forty-one flowers. One night I met a blond foreign girl.  I only knew a few words in English, so it was difficult to communicate with her. I was drunk at the time, and I nodded to whatever she said. As a result, she took me to a small church for a wedding.  You know, in that place, as long as you have a passport and a $55 handling fee, you are considered married This thing is ridiculous, the marriage is quick, and the divorce is quick.  " Hearing this, I envy Lao Zhang. As a post-60s generation, he has done many things that the post-90s generation has not done. "I just heard Lao Zhang say again: "I will share it here today, next."  ¡± I paid attention to Lao Zhang¡¯s face and found that he was very relaxed. This made me curious, when a person says a lot of heavy things in his heart, will he feel as relaxed as Lao Zhang? At this time, a person on the right of Lao Zhang looked at  Xiongtai, who looked a little shy, said: "My name is Lao Yang, I am thirty-four years old.  I" This guy didn't look very confident and spoke intermittently: "I've only been married once and divorced once" Everyone laughed. This guy's words are quite interesting. Is it possible to get married once?  Can we divorce twice? In our smiles, Lao Yang was even more embarrassed: "I never fell in love when I was in school. I had a crush on a girl in high school and never dared to confess.  Later, she slept with a famous gangster in our school and had an abortion. The whole school knew I don't understand why the girls in middle school all like Young and Dangerous. When I heard the news about her, I cried secretly.  More than ten years have passed, and no one may know that I have liked her, and she will never know that I have shed tears for her" Immersed in the memories, Lao Yang's tone became more assertive: "I didn't do well in the college entrance examination.  Went to a junior college.  When I was a sophomore, I finally plucked up the courage to confess to a girl, but was rejected" I looked at Lao Yang, and I was shocked by this ordinary man. "I have seen a statistic before, saying that it is 35  % of Chinese men have never been in love before graduating from college. Seeing Lao Yang, I finally agreed with this statement. There are too many people like this in real life. Lao Yang added: "Ashamed, I have been working for several years."  , but no woman still likes me.  Later, my family couldn't stand it anymore, so they asked someone to act as a matchmaker and introduce me to a blind date.  I was born in the 21st century, and I actually asked someone else to act as a matchmaker to complete my marriage.  Blind dates are not that easy. It¡¯s not that I don¡¯t like others, but that others don¡¯t like me.  On my fourth blind date, I finally met a woman who reluctantly fell in love with me.  We had no emotional foundation. After two months of getting along, we got married under the arrangement of the two families. This is my marriage" I felt chills all over. Lao Yang's story had a frightening truth to it.  If the data is reliable and Lao Yang can represent 35% of a certain group, it means that tens of millions of men in this country are living a hopeless life like Lao Yang, experiencing Lao Yang¡¯s kind of despair.    Lao Yang: "I divorced last year because she proposed it. She looked down on me and she always regretted getting married. The children also followed her, and I couldn't compete with her. I thought about committing suicide. I have always regretted it in my life.  It¡¯s so worthless to live. Later, a friend introduced me here, and with everyone¡¯s help, my situation improved a lot, but I still don¡¯t know if I can find the relationship I want.  The request is very simple, I just want to find a woman who really thinks highly of me. "You have such a serious mentality. If you look down on yourself from beginning to end, how can you expect those women to like you?" I finally couldn't help but fuck you.  After saying a few words, Lao Yang¡¯s story touched me deeply.  Everyone looked at me in surprise. Lao Yang's face turned white and blue for a long time. After a long time, he said: "You are right. I just don't have confidence and am timid. In fact, I have teased girls online, but in reality  I get scared when I meet a girl face to face, and I can¡¯t beat her with three sticks.¡± ¡°Have you ever had an online relationship?¡± I asked him. I thought that if a man has had an online relationship, he has experienced emotional ups and downs.  It's better than never having a relationship in your life.  Lao Yang said weakly: "Once, I don't know if it counts as online dating." Everyone was surprised and looked at me like an idol brother, and then Lao Zhang sighed: "Okay, Lao Yang, we used to think  You have been innocent all your life, but I didn¡¯t expect you to have secretly engaged in online dating. Tell me what happened.¡± Perhaps recalling the only love-related experience in his life, Lao Yang¡¯s face turned slightly red: ¡°In 2002, I just did it.  Not long after I started working, I played online games when I had nothing to do. It was a NetEase game, the famous XX Journey to the West 2. That summer, that game was officially charged, and a girl among my friends said that she didn¡¯t have a card.  I gave her a point card. Later she married me in the game, but I always felt that she was with me because I often gave her a point card" Lao Zhang comforted him: "  Don't be so unsure, maybe she loves you and it's hard to admit." Mr. Lin interrupted: "Have you ever seen her? Have you ever seen a video?" Lao Yang: "There was no video in those days. I remember it was 03.  Cameras only became popular after SARS in 2017. "Lao Zhang: "What do you mean, you are marrying someone you have never met online, so he may be a shemale, right?" Lao Yang thought for a while and said: "  Probably not." Lao Zhang: "Why are you so sure?" Lao Yang: "I have seen her photos, she looks pretty good, she looks like a typical female college student. It was very complicated to upload photos at the Internet cafe.  She said she wanted to see me, so I went to the Internet cafe to scan a photo for her. "Lao Zhang: "What happened next?" Lao Yang lowered his head and murmured, "She never played the game again"  Lao Zhang: "" Mr. Lin: "" All of us: "" ¡¤
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